In the past months the Lord has been teaching me and calling me to a new understanding about the hope and glory of our future, for us who are in Christ! I have been realizing that in much of my life, I act like life here on earth is the end goal. We praise God when He protects us and we are so grateful (when we stop long enough to notice) that we are still breathing in oxygen and breathing out carbon dioxide; we are still here! It is the Lord's love and grace that keeps us and protects our lives here on earth and with this life I am called to serve Him with all that I am, but He is showing me that this life is not the end goal! The goal is God's glory and the goal is entering into life to the absolute fullest, life with God in all of His glory, life without pain, sorrows or tears (Revelation 21:3-5)! Life without the effects of sin!
We live life here on earth, but as followers of Jesus, we are strangers here! Our home is in heaven with God (Philippians 3:20)! So when one of our loved ones, who love Jesus, stop breathing and living life here with us it is not a surprise to God and it is not even bad; it is because God loves them that He takes them, it is actually really awesome because they have reached the next part, for which we are preparing and looking forward to! Yes, it is really sad to lose them because we love them and we miss them so much! It hurts horribly to lose our loved ones! I for one, want to learn more about this future hope and allow the Lord to build my excitement and anticipation for what is to come...to enter fully into His glory! "No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love Him." (1 Corinthians 2:9)
C.S. Lewis explains this better than I can in the final book of The Chronicles of Narnia, The Last Battle. Some children are on a train when they experience a sudden jerk, then find themselves pulled once again into their beloved land of Narnia. Aslan is the mighty lion in Narnia that they loved and who loved them. (emphasis added)
'There was a real railway accident,' said Aslan softly. 'Your father and mother and all of you are--as you used to call it in the Shadowlands--dead. The term is over: the holidays have begun. The dream is ended: this is the morning.'
And as He spoke He no longer looked to them like a lion; but the things that began to happen after that were so great and beautiful that I cannot write them. And for us this is the end of all the stories, and we can most truly say that they all lived happily ever after. But for them it was only the beginning of the real story. All their life in this world and all their adventures in Narnia had only been the cover and the title page: now at last they were beginning Chapter One of the Great Story which no one on earth has read: which goes on forever: in which every chapter is better than the one before.